Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda

I SHOULD HAVE completed my morning chores, which includes emptying the dishwasher full of clean dishes, loading it with dirty dishes, and washing whatever doesn't fit/takes up too much room by hand.




I COULD HAVE done it while my kids were eating lunch or while a few of them were napping simultaneously this afternoon.



I'm glad I didn't....


I WOULD HAVE missed out on letting Justus and Eli "help."



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